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Teaching bad boys to behave, the hard way.</div>www.MakeHimPay.nethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00659798478029675341noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17119205.post-1159111854305827492006-09-24T06:30:00.000-07:002006-09-24T23:43:38.470-07:00Dear Abby, please advise.I came across an article by the "Dear Abby" writer called: "Wife calls foul in friends' game of show and tell." Here is a section of the article where the viewer is laying down her problem:<br /><br /><span style="color:#9999ff;">It seems like whenever we get together, Alice manages to bring up the subject of sex. In the past I'd ignore it, but the last time it happened she began talking about how Ted had taken pictures of her after sex. Then she stared at Bob and asked, "Would you like to see them?" Abby, my husband responded, "Sure!"<br /><br />At that point I lost it. I told Bob his response was extremely rude and showed no concern for my feelings. Everyone tried to make light of what happened. I realize that Alice may have an issue, but was I wrong to state my feelings?</span><br /><br />Here is "Dear Abby's" advice:<br /><span style="color:#9999ff;">You were right to make your feelings known, but your anger should have been aimed at Alice, not your curious spouse. If I had to guess, I'd say Alice and Ted probably have an open marriage, and they have been trying to "enlist" you and Bob for some time. Unless this is your cup of tea — which I doubt — wake up and cool it with this "adventurous" couple.</span><br /><br />You can read the full article <a href="http://www.chron.com/disp/story.mpl/life/4205273.html">here</a>.<br />The advice Dear Abby gives to this woman is just ridiculous to me. Actually it got me pretty mad. In the full article it says this couple has been married for 35 years. I can't imagine some one being married, presumably to the one they love, for 35 years without catching some kind of clue about that persons thoughts and feelings. I have to disagree with Abby when she says, "...<span style="color:#9999ff;">your anger should have been aimed at Alice, not your curious spouse</span>."<br /><br />I'm sure some irritation directed towards "Alice" would be understandable but is she really the one who can directly effect the health of this marriage? Of course not. Is "Alice" supposed to be the one who is most in tune with the wife's feelings? Of course not. Can a man really be struck with such debilitating force from mild curiosity that it overtakes his memory of the last 35 years? Absolutely not.<br /><br />So according to Abby the wife was right for being mad in this situation but wrong to hold her husband accountable because, as its widely becoming know, men are powerless in the face of mild curiosity and cannot be responsible thereafter for what they do. If this advice were applied to real life then this poor wife would have a daunting task of warding off all possible kryptonite that may grab her husbands curiosity.<br /><br /><span style="color:#9999ff;">Dear Abby, how does a couple build a loving, lasting relationship if one of them is considered unable to take the others feelings into account?<br />From,<br />Wondering On The Web</span><br /><br /><p><span style="color:#9999ff;"></span> </p><br /><a href="http://www.say-so.org/view/rwspr09l" title="Did Dear Abby give bad advice to this wife?">Join The Discussion For This Topic</a><div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.makehimpay.net">www.MakeHimPay.net</a><br>
Teaching bad boys to behave, the hard way.</div>www.MakeHimPay.nethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00659798478029675341noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17119205.post-1157151612577367522006-09-01T15:59:00.000-07:002006-09-06T05:43:57.793-07:00Who tends to seek revenge more often after a bad break up, men or women?<a href="http://www.say-so.org/view/syc4yhii" title="Who tends to seek revenge more often after a bad break up, men or women? Why?">Join this discussion</a><br /><br />Do you think the motives differ between men and women who seek revenge after a bad break up? When men get revenge what are they thrying to accomplish? Are they the same thoughts women have that compell an act of payback?<br /><br />If you have an opinion or feel you have some insight you can join this topic with the link above.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.makehimpay.net">www.MakeHimPay.net</a><br>
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Teaching bad boys to behave, the hard way.</div>www.MakeHimPay.nethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00659798478029675341noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17119205.post-1151280416168564102006-06-25T16:59:00.000-07:002006-06-27T15:10:58.736-07:00Poor Guys :(This is how a guys brain reacts when the slightest thought of sex creeps in:<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://makehimpay.net/images/media_pics/wee.gif"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px;" src="http://makehimpay.net/images/media_pics/wee.gif" border="0" alt="" /></a><br /><br />From the photo of the week collection at <a href="http://makehimpay.net/index.html">www.makehimpay.net</a><br /><br /><a href="http://makehimpay.net/photo-archive.html">More From The Collection</a><div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.makehimpay.net">www.MakeHimPay.net</a><br>
Teaching bad boys to behave, the hard way.</div>www.MakeHimPay.nethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00659798478029675341noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17119205.post-1144900018667829082006-04-12T20:44:00.000-07:002006-04-12T20:46:58.686-07:00LoveLine Live With Dr. Drew And Guest Danny BonaduceDr. Drew and Guest Danny Bonaduce answer a callers question about why men cheat.<br><br><object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" width="150" height="76" codebase="http://fpdownload.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=8,0,0,0"><param name="movie" value="http://www.gabcast.com/mp3play/mp3player.swf?file=http://www.gabcast.com/casts/620/episodes/http-makehimpay.net/media_files/Loveline-Cheating.mp3&config=http://www.gabcast.com/mp3play/config_logo.xml" /><param name="wmode" value="transparent" /><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.gabcast.com/mp3play/mp3player.swf?file=http://www.gabcast.com/casts/620/episodes/http-makehimpay.net/media_files/Loveline-Cheating.mp3&config=http://www.gabcast.com/mp3play/config_logo.xml" allowScriptAccess="always" wmode="transparent" width="150" height="76" name="mp3player" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer"></embed></object><div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.makehimpay.net">www.MakeHimPay.net</a><br>
Teaching bad boys to behave, the hard way.</div>www.MakeHimPay.nethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00659798478029675341noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17119205.post-1144314206385486322006-04-06T01:57:00.000-07:002006-04-06T02:07:00.610-07:00Tony Soberon is available!Surely you remember Tony Soberon.<br /><br /><a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/6344/1642/1600/tony-soberon.1.jpg"><img style="CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/6344/1642/320/tony-soberon.1.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br />If you don't remember him this video should jolt your memory:<br /><br /><a href="http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=7008748856381833702&q=practice" target="_blank">Tony's debut song!</a><br /><br />Guess what ladies, he's available!<br />And (<a href="http://bride.ru/ph/htcgi/men/117/117504P2.html">going by his Russian Bride profile</a>) he's only 30 and divides his time between being a Movie Producer and a Lawyer...what a catch!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.makehimpay.net">www.MakeHimPay.net</a><br>
Teaching bad boys to behave, the hard way.</div>www.MakeHimPay.nethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00659798478029675341noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17119205.post-1144115849888267042006-04-03T18:57:00.000-07:002006-04-03T19:44:28.213-07:00A Message To Karl From Kelly:<span style="font-family:arial;">A message to Karl from Kelly: "You’re an UGLY LIAR!"<br /></span>Enjoy it Mr. pants on fire! This message is for you...<br />Click below for Kelly's audio message!<br /><br /><a href="http://makehimpay.net/loser.html"><img src="http://makehimpay.net/images/site_pics/ugly.jpg" border="0"></a><div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.makehimpay.net">www.MakeHimPay.net</a><br>
Teaching bad boys to behave, the hard way.</div>www.MakeHimPay.nethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00659798478029675341noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17119205.post-1143886057741100952006-04-01T02:03:00.000-08:002006-07-20T05:05:00.543-07:00New Phone Number For The Cheat Checker<p>Google now links to our site when doing a reverse search on the old number, not good. We have prevented search engines from picking up the new phone number. If a voice mail is left for the old number we'll still post it on the forum. </p><p>Here is the new number:</p><p><a href="http://makehimpay.net/images/site_pics/phone-check.gif"><img style="CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="http://makehimpay.net/images/site_pics/phone-check.gif" border="0" /></a> </p><p>Don't know what this is all about? Find out <a href="http://makehimpay.net/cheat-checker.html">HERE</a></p><div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.makehimpay.net">www.MakeHimPay.net</a><br>
Teaching bad boys to behave, the hard way.</div>www.MakeHimPay.nethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00659798478029675341noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17119205.post-1142681628130787312006-03-18T03:20:00.000-08:002006-07-20T14:12:34.670-07:00Who's Calling Your Man's Cell?Are you suspitious about your man's faithfulness? Wondering who's calling his cell phone? Think he's deleting voice mail messages before he gets home?<br /><br />Then get his messages delivered to your email without him ever knowing! <a href="http://www.gotvoice.com/" target="_blank">GotVoice</a> has a voice mail message retrieving service that's FREE! All you need to know is the cell phone number and the voice mail password (Easy to get by going to the carrier's web site and choosing "I forgot my password" while you have his phone with you!) and you can be set up within 5 minutes! Once it is set up you can choose to check his phone for messages any time you feel like it. You can also choose to check for only new messages, check saved messages and even to delete all the messages on his phone. During the setup process make sure you have his phone and you turn the ringer off, they call the phone a few times to make sure the access code works. After the initial setup there will be absolutly NO sign of anything different happening to his phone!<br /><br /><a href="http://www.kqzyfj.com/click-2082958-10363771" target="_blank"><br /><img src="http://www.awltovhc.com/image-2082958-10363771" width="234" height="60" alt="null" border="0"/></a><div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.makehimpay.net">www.MakeHimPay.net</a><br>
Teaching bad boys to behave, the hard way.</div>www.MakeHimPay.nethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00659798478029675341noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17119205.post-1142351913078635052006-03-14T07:58:00.000-08:002006-03-14T07:58:36.856-08:00Deceptively simple revenge ideas from Martha Stewart Living<a href="http://facepalm.blogspot.com/2006/02/deceptively-simple-revenge-ideas-from.html">Give me spirit fingers dammit!!: Deceptively simple revenge ideas from Martha Stewart Living</a><br /><br /><br /><blockquote>Vandalising carsDamaging somebody's car is a good way of causing inconvenience and mild distress. This is best done when the car is in a stationary position. If your enemy has more than one car, start with the most expensive looking one and work your way downwards.Press a sharp key firmly against one of the car doors until you have scratched beneath the paint. Keeping the key pressed down, scratch the entire length of the vehicle. Use a straight ruler to maintain a neat line. Measure the position of the first scratch and repeat for the other side making sure that both scratches are at the same height. If you have time, let out one of the tires.</blockquote>I just came across this post in <a href="http://facepalm.blogspot.com/2006/02/deceptively-simple-revenge-ideas-from.html">Spirit Fingers'</a> Blog. Having a web site, and...oh yeah...also a blog, dedicated to the humours relief revenge can often give to onlookers, reading this post on her blog had me rolling! It has all the classic time tested techniques for payback but beautifully stylized in the "perfect" Martha Stewart fashion! Hilarious! To top off the fun I was personally enjoying from this spin on revenge, just yesterday I uploaded The Bathroom Wall section to <a href="http://www.makehimpay.net">www.makehimpay.net</a> having the sole purpose of defacement in the exact way described as Martha Stewart herself would do it (only I don't measure up when it comes to Martha Stewart "perfection-ing"!) .<br /><br />A thought of Martha has only made me laugh one other time, so thank you <a href="http://facepalm.blogspot.com">Spirit Fingers</a>!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.makehimpay.net">www.MakeHimPay.net</a><br>
Teaching bad boys to behave, the hard way.</div>www.MakeHimPay.nethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00659798478029675341noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17119205.post-1141955110521277372006-03-09T17:45:00.000-08:002006-03-30T17:33:59.003-08:00Interview With Tim From TruthAboutDeceptionThe creator of <a href="http://www.truthaboutdeception.com">www.truthaboutdeception.com</a> gives us some great insight on dealing with lying and relationships.<br /><br /><br /><div style="WIDTH: 175px; BACKGROUND-COLOR: transparent"><object codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=" height="25" width="175" align="middle" classid="clsid:D27CDB6E-AE6D-11cf-96B8-444553540000"><param name="_cx" value="4630"><param name="_cy" value="661"><param name="FlashVars" value=""><param name="Movie" value="http://www.gabcast.com/emff_player.swf?src=http://www.gabcast.com/casts/620/episodes/1141953861.mp3"><param name="Src" value="http://www.gabcast.com/emff_player.swf?src=http://www.gabcast.com/casts/620/episodes/1141953861.mp3"><param name="WMode" value="Window"><param name="Play" value="-1"><param name="Loop" value="-1"><param name="Quality" value="High"><param name="SAlign" value=""><param name="Menu" value="-1"><param name="Base" value=""><param name="AllowScriptAccess" value=""><param name="Scale" value="ShowAll"><param name="DeviceFont" value="0"><param name="EmbedMovie" value="0"><param name="BGColor" value="FFFFFF"><param name="SWRemote" value=""><param name="MovieData" value=""><param name="SeamlessTabbing" value="1"><param name="Profile" value="0"><param name="ProfileAddress" value=""><param name="ProfilePort" value="0"><embed src="http://www.gabcast.com/emff_player.swf?src=http://www.gabcast.com/casts/620/episodes/1141953861.mp3" quality="high" bgcolor="#e6e6e6" width="175" height="25" align="middle" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer"></embed></object><div style="PADDING-LEFT: 10px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 5px; PADDING-BOTTOM: 2px; MARGIN-LEFT: 1px; MARGIN-RIGHT: 1px; BORDER-BOTTOM: #cccccc 2px solid; BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffffff"><a style="FONT: 12px Geneva, Helvetica, sans-serif; COLOR: #666666; TEXT-DECORATION: none" href="http://www.gabcast.com" target="_BLANK">gabcast.com</a> </div></div><br /><strong>More about the creator of <a href="http://www.truthaboutdeception.com">www.truthaboutdeception.com</a>:</strong><br /><br /><br />What inspired the creation of this site?<br /><br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">I have been studying, teaching, doing research on deception for over a decade. The topic is fascinating to me, everyone lies and engages in deception, but we aren't allowed to talk about it out in the open. So, I created the website, Truth about Deception, so that people could ask questions about deception, love and romance. There is a lot of curiosity about the topic, but again, it is not something that people can easily discuss with their friends, loved ones, or family. </span><br /><span style="color:#ff0000;"></span><br />Your web site offers some of the most precise and detailed information onthe web. Where do you get your credentials and experience?<br /><br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">I have spent a good part of my life studying or thinking about deception (Ihave PhD - my dissertation focused on how people lie to each other). I have done research on the topic, written academic articles about romance and deception, and I have given lectures on the topic. Studying how, when, and why people lie has revealed so many secrets about our human nature.</span><br /><span style="color:#ff0000;"></span><br />In general have you come to any conclusion or universal understanding about people and lying?<br /><br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">Lying and deception are an inherent part of our social relationships. It is impossible to have a close relationship without some form of deception. Not only are our relationships held together by telling the truth and being honest, but by telling the right lie at the right time. Social life is always more complicated than we would like it to be, and whether we like to acknowledge it or not, deception plays a large role in how we relate to each other.</span><div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.makehimpay.net">www.MakeHimPay.net</a><br>
Teaching bad boys to behave, the hard way.</div>www.MakeHimPay.nethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00659798478029675341noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17119205.post-1141411820551610202006-03-03T10:40:00.000-08:002006-03-04T00:44:33.656-08:00The e-Closure Guys Answer Some Questions!What was the inspiration behind <a href="http://e-closure.blogspot.com/">e-closure</a> and the publishing of break-up letters?<br /><br /><span style="color:#99ffff;"><span style="color:#ff0000;">Dwayne: We were both going through shitty breakups and were looking for closure. The idea hit us like a steaming sack of shit and we thought it would be fun and therapeutic to share our experiences with the world and give the other miserable souls a forum to do the same. Naked.</span><br /></span><br /><span style="color:#ff9900;">Charles: It was one of those magical moments where we both looked at each other deep in the eyes and said "eureka! e-closure.com!!!"<br /></span><br />How soon after publishing the site did your first break-up letter come in?<br /><br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">Dwayne: The first anonymous letter we got was about two weeks after we launched this bad boy.<br /></span><br /><span style="color:#ff9900;">Charles: Dwayne said it made it all worth while. I said it made all of my breakups feel like warmups. Then we ate fruit rollups.<br /></span><br />How did that first letter effect you personally? What were your thoughts or feelings when you got it?<br /><br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">Dwayne: The first letter changed our lives forever. We assume the feeling was the same one you get when you see your first child slip out of the vagina. We dressed it up in cute outfits and took pictures and sent it to all our friends, we called our parents and took some time off work to be with our first born. They say the beginning years are really the most important.<br /></span><br /><span style="color:#ff9900;">Charles: Since then, we've gotten so many letters that we've become VERY neglectful parents. We don't even feed our letters anymore.<br /><br /></span>Do you think it has an effect on those who submit the break-up letters? And how about on those reading the letters on your site?<br /><br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">Dwayne: It's gotta have an effect on the submiters. We think. Maybe. Who knows? Totally. It's like anything, some people love it and others could care less. Some relate and dig certain letters and other detest some of them. You can't please everyone. Unless you're Jesus.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:#ff9900;">Charles: We've been careful not to worry too much what the submitters feel. We're like the dentist you have who only talks to you about what he or she wrote down on the chart the first time you went to visit. Like, "hey there sport, how's school treating you?" and stuff like that. We try not to develop personal relationships with the submitters, cause then they expect us to hold their hands when they cross the road. Fuck that and fuck Jesus.<br /></span><br />Do you find that each letter is unique or are there trends in the way break-up letters are written?<br /><br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">Dwayne: They're all unique in their own way and the commonalities are that it's all people trying to get answers or closure from someone they were intimate with by sharing their stories. Or they just get off on seeing their writing on the world wide web. Either or.<br /><br /></span><span style="color:#ff9900;">Charles: They are all beautiful and unique snowflakes, made of pixie dust and fairy wind.<br /></span><br />Who has been rejected the most in your collection, men or women?<br /><br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">Dwayne: We can't do math. But we're pretty sure it's even. 50/50. No more. No less.<br /><br /></span><span style="color:#ff9900;">Charles: What he said. Besides, it doesn't matter who got rejected more: we're all rejected deep down inside.<br /></span><br />Have you been surprised by any of the letters submitted? If so, how?<br /><br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">Dwayne: At one point we thought no one would submit, then at another point we thought the whole world would submit. So we're pleasantly surprised that anyone submitted at all. So generally we're surprised. Always.<br /></span><br /><span style="color:#ff9900;">Charles: Yeah. I live life in constant amazement. Like, "holy shit, i can't believe there's something called 'the internet'... and isn't it crazy that there are big hunks of bent metal called 'cars' and people 'driv<br />e' them and kill each other and pollute the air I breathe?" Life can be a feast of marvels, e-closure included.<br /></span><span style="color:#99ff99;"></span><br />Have you been touched by any of the letters submitted? If so, how?<br /><br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">Dwayne: Oui. A lot of them are so personal and well written that you can visualize what happened through the words and sometimes feel what the people in the letter felt. The best ones are the ones that are soul baring and emotionally hard to read.<br /></span><br /><span style="color:#ff9900;">Charles: I have been personally touched by the one(s) i've submitted, cause they happened to me in real life... i didn't just read them on a computer screen with my pants down. All of the other letters we've gotten touch me on some level, and it makes me feel like a creepy voyeur.<br /><br /></span>What has the response to <a href="http://e-closure.blogspot.com/">e-closure.com</a> been like?<br /><br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">Dwayne: Pretty rad. we have a decent little following. Our most famous readers are Brad Pitt and George Clooney. That's all they do when they get together is read our site and drink peach schnapps, so that's pretty flattering.<br /></span><br /><span style="color:#ff9900;">Charles: I've gotten some great responses from a couple of my exes, like "please don't ever post anything I sent you on your site. PLEASE."<br /><br /></span><br />Do you have anything planned in the future of <a href="http://e-closure.blogspot.com/">e-closure.com</a> ?<br /><br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">Dwayne: We just want to take over the world and be on Oprah. Is that too much to ask?<br /><br /></span><span style="color:#ff9900;">Charles: We're working on a totally made-up non-fiction book that's gonna be about our descent into cat tranquilizer addiction, and the website idea that brought us out of the k-hole.<br /><br /></span>What would you most like to see happen with your break-up letter documenting venture?<br /><br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">Dwayne: We'd like to open our inbox and see a thousand new letters. In one day. Or maybe every minute of that day a new thousand would show up. Yeah, that'd be sweet.<br /></span><br /><span style="color:#ff9900;">Charles: I'd like to get a breakup letter from a celebrity... like, it would be awesome to recieve the inevitable breakup letter from katie holmes to tom cruise... that one's gonna be a riot: "dear tom. I'm sick of wearing this tinfoil hat and I don't want to watch you masturbate to star trek anymore. Best of luck in your future endeavors. Kate."<br /></span><br />What is the most important thing you'd like readers to know about your site?<br /><br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">Dwayne: If we didn't have you, we'd have no one. Thank you for reading, we love you, you sick bastards.<br /></span><br /><span style="color:#ff9900;">Charles: If we didn't have you, we'd find someone else. You are all the worst thing that's ever happened to us.<br /></span><br />Any thing else?<br /><br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">Dwayne: Did you know that urine is sterile? You can drink it.<br /><br /></span><span style="color:#ff9900;">Charles: Also, most of the world's population is lactose intolerant. That's because cow's milk is baby food for cows, not people. (seriously. look it up.)<br /></span><br /><br /><a href="http://www.e-closure.com">www.e-closure.com</a><br /><br />Thanks Guys!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.makehimpay.net">www.MakeHimPay.net</a><br>
Teaching bad boys to behave, the hard way.</div>www.MakeHimPay.nethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00659798478029675341noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17119205.post-1141389814272568992006-03-03T04:19:00.000-08:002006-03-03T04:50:38.966-08:00Interview With TheStoriesYouCannotTellInterview with the creator of <a href="http://thestoriesyoucannottell.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">TheStoriesYouCannotTell</a><br /><br /><br />What inspired you to create your site, The Stories You<br />Cannot Tell?<br /><span style="color:#ccffff;"><span style="color:#ff0000;">-I had made some major mistakes in life and felt the need to apologize. I<br />felt as if I had some making up to do, even though the people I affected may never even read my blog.</span><br /></span><br />Have you posted ALL of YOUR stories you cannot tell on<br />your site?<br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">-No. I have barely scratched the surface.</span><br /><br />How soon after launching your site did you receive the<br />first submitted shameful story?<br /><span style="color:#ccffff;"><span style="color:#ff0000;">-Three days.</span><br /></span><br />How many user submitted stories do you have on your<br />site right now?<br /><span style="color:#ccffff;"><span style="color:#ff0000;">-There are over two hundred stories at last count.</span><br /></span><br />Have there ever been stories submitted that you<br />refused to post?<br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">-Yes.<br /></span><br />If so how many have been refused? Can you tell us why<br />they were refused (if any)?<br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">-Only one has ever been refused. I felt that animal sex stories were not something I wanted to post.<br /></span><br />Have you received any strange emails as a result of<br />this project? For example, some one being mad at you after being talked<br />about in a story?<br /><span style="color:#ccffff;"><span style="color:#ff0000;">-No. I have yet to receive a complaint.</span><br /></span><br />Have any of your submitters experience "Telling"<br />regret?<br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">-Not at all. Many of them have even emailed me, thanking me after I've<br />posted their story.</span><br /><br />Have you developed any new phobias after discovering<br />some of the things people do?<br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">-Yes. I am more aware of people around me in public washrooms after<br />reading the story of a guy checking out another guy's package, and the story of what<br />happened in the YMCA showers.<br /></span><br />Has this changed your view of people or society in<br />general? If so, how and why?<br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">-Not really. Based on my own life experiences I have a good grasp of the<br />many different types of people and society as a whole.</span><br /><br />How busy does this blog keep you?<br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">-Busy enough that I take time away from my normal routine to post stories<br />and add my comments as well as respond to other people's comments. I'd say<br />at least a few hours a day.<br /></span><br />Do you have plans for the future of your web site?<br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">-I plan to keep it going for a while. I still have quite a few stories to<br />tell and based on the amount of stories I've received, there is a great<br />amount of people out there that have stories you cannot tell.</span><br /><br />Out of all the stories submitted which is your<br />personal favorite and why? (include link)<br />-<a href="http://thestoriesyoucannottell.blogspot.com/2006/01/14-tips-to-follow-when-having-affair.html" target="_blank">http://thestoriesyoucannottell.blogspot.com/2006/01/14-tips-to-follow-when-having-affair.html</a><br /><span style="color:#ccffff;"><span style="color:#ff0000;">It's probably the most talked about story I've ever posted. After posting<br />this I was amazed at how many people emailed me telling me about their<br />affairs and such. I was shocked at how common cheating is.</span><br /></span><br />Do you have any more interesting facts or experiences<br />from "The Stories You Cannot Tell"?<br /><span style="color:#ff0000;">-My best experience so far has to be the positive response from my readers.<br />Seems like with all the "confession" websites out there, none of them give<br />the you the ability to "talk" to the person confessing. Having the comments on sure<br />makes for some interesting remarks from the general public. Sometimes the<br />comments are more humorous than the story themselves!</span><br /><br />To Submit Your Own Story, Visit <a href="http://thestoriesyoucannottell.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">The Blog</a>.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.makehimpay.net">www.MakeHimPay.net</a><br>
Teaching bad boys to behave, the hard way.</div>www.MakeHimPay.nethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00659798478029675341noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17119205.post-1141287681227384232006-03-02T00:21:00.000-08:002006-03-03T03:35:44.280-08:00LoveLine Live With Dr. Drew<a href="http://makehimpay.net/media_files/Loveline-Cheating.mp3" target="new">Interviews With www.makehimpay.net - LoveLine Live With Dr. Drew</a><br /><br />Right click the link above to download the MP3 file and listen.<br /><br />Dr. Drew and Guest Danny Bonaduce answer a callers question about why men cheat.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.makehimpay.net">www.MakeHimPay.net</a><br>
Teaching bad boys to behave, the hard way.</div>www.MakeHimPay.nethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00659798478029675341noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17119205.post-1141388318366814342006-02-28T03:54:00.000-08:002006-03-06T20:11:09.510-08:00The Phone Number Of Truth - Our First Calls!The Cheat Checker calls are coming in!<br /><br />To listen to the messages of the first three callers go to our <a href="http://makehimpay.net/media_files/Cheat_Checker/" target="_blank">Cheat Checker File Index</a>.<br />If you want to check a cheat yourself use this phone number:<br />432-205-5023 <br />Be creative with it: pretend you're someone else chatting online and tell him to call you, write it down with a girls name on it with a message for him to call, have a friend he doesn't know go to his work and flirtingly give it to him, use our <a href="http://makehimpay.net/textmessage.html" target="_blank">text messenger</a> and send it to his cell phone saying you met him at a club last night...be creative and see if he takes the bait!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.makehimpay.net">www.MakeHimPay.net</a><br>
Teaching bad boys to behave, the hard way.</div>www.MakeHimPay.nethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00659798478029675341noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17119205.post-1141063567929583392006-02-27T10:01:00.000-08:002006-03-01T01:00:24.190-08:00"Phone Number Of Truth"<div align="left"><span style="font-family:arial;">Brand New <strong><span style="font-size:150%;">Phone Number Of Truth</span></strong> if they call you'll know!<br /><br /><span style="font-size:150%;"><strong><span style="color:#ff0000;"> 1-432-205-5023</span></strong><br /></span><br />Suspicious of your man? Think he's calling other women? Use the number above to find out!<br /><br />Be creative with it: pretend you're someone else chatting online and tell him to call you, write it down with a girls name on it with a message for him to call, have a friend he doesn't know go to his work and flirtingly give it to him, use our </span><a class="postlink" href="http://makehimpay.net/textmessage.html" target="_blank"><span style="font-family:arial;">text messenger</span></a><span style="font-family:arial;"> and send it to his cell phone saying you met him at a club last night...be creative and see if he takes the bait!<br /><br />If he leaves a message we'll post it immediately to our web site!<br /><br />Have a good idea for using this number? Post it on the </span><a href="http://p3.forumforfree.com/phone-number-of-truth-vt53-makehimpay.html"><span style="font-family:arial;">Forum</span></a><span style="font-family:arial;"> for everyone to use!</span></div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><a href="http://www.makehimpay.net">www.MakeHimPay.net</a><br>
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