Who's Calling Your Man's Cell?

Are you suspitious about your man's faithfulness? Wondering who's calling his cell phone? Think he's deleting voice mail messages before he gets home?

Then get his messages delivered to your email without him ever knowing! GotVoice has a voice mail message retrieving service that's FREE! All you need to know is the cell phone number and the voice mail password (Easy to get by going to the carrier's web site and choosing "I forgot my password" while you have his phone with you!) and you can be set up within 5 minutes! Once it is set up you can choose to check his phone for messages any time you feel like it. You can also choose to check for only new messages, check saved messages and even to delete all the messages on his phone. During the setup process make sure you have his phone and you turn the ringer off, they call the phone a few times to make sure the access code works. After the initial setup there will be absolutly NO sign of anything different happening to his phone!

Deceptively simple revenge ideas from Martha Stewart Living

Give me spirit fingers dammit!!: Deceptively simple revenge ideas from Martha Stewart Living

Vandalising carsDamaging somebody's car is a good way of causing inconvenience and mild distress. This is best done when the car is in a stationary position. If your enemy has more than one car, start with the most expensive looking one and work your way downwards.Press a sharp key firmly against one of the car doors until you have scratched beneath the paint. Keeping the key pressed down, scratch the entire length of the vehicle. Use a straight ruler to maintain a neat line. Measure the position of the first scratch and repeat for the other side making sure that both scratches are at the same height. If you have time, let out one of the tires.

I just came across this post in Spirit Fingers' Blog. Having a web site, and...oh yeah...also a blog, dedicated to the humours relief revenge can often give to onlookers, reading this post on her blog had me rolling! It has all the classic time tested techniques for payback but beautifully stylized in the "perfect" Martha Stewart fashion! Hilarious! To top off the fun I was personally enjoying from this spin on revenge, just yesterday I uploaded The Bathroom Wall section to www.makehimpay.net having the sole purpose of defacement in the exact way described as Martha Stewart herself would do it (only I don't measure up when it comes to Martha Stewart "perfection-ing"!) .

A thought of Martha has only made me laugh one other time, so thank you Spirit Fingers!

Interview With Tim From TruthAboutDeception

The creator of www.truthaboutdeception.com gives us some great insight on dealing with lying and relationships.

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More about the creator of www.truthaboutdeception.com:


What inspired the creation of this site?

I have been studying, teaching, doing research on deception for over a decade. The topic is fascinating to me, everyone lies and engages in deception, but we aren't allowed to talk about it out in the open. So, I created the website, Truth about Deception, so that people could ask questions about deception, love and romance. There is a lot of curiosity about the topic, but again, it is not something that people can easily discuss with their friends, loved ones, or family.

Your web site offers some of the most precise and detailed information onthe web. Where do you get your credentials and experience?

I have spent a good part of my life studying or thinking about deception (Ihave PhD - my dissertation focused on how people lie to each other). I have done research on the topic, written academic articles about romance and deception, and I have given lectures on the topic. Studying how, when, and why people lie has revealed so many secrets about our human nature.

In general have you come to any conclusion or universal understanding about people and lying?

Lying and deception are an inherent part of our social relationships. It is impossible to have a close relationship without some form of deception. Not only are our relationships held together by telling the truth and being honest, but by telling the right lie at the right time. Social life is always more complicated than we would like it to be, and whether we like to acknowledge it or not, deception plays a large role in how we relate to each other.

The e-Closure Guys Answer Some Questions!

What was the inspiration behind e-closure and the publishing of break-up letters?

Dwayne: We were both going through shitty breakups and were looking for closure. The idea hit us like a steaming sack of shit and we thought it would be fun and therapeutic to share our experiences with the world and give the other miserable souls a forum to do the same. Naked.

Charles: It was one of those magical moments where we both looked at each other deep in the eyes and said "eureka! e-closure.com!!!"

How soon after publishing the site did your first break-up letter come in?

Dwayne: The first anonymous letter we got was about two weeks after we launched this bad boy.

Charles: Dwayne said it made it all worth while. I said it made all of my breakups feel like warmups. Then we ate fruit rollups.

How did that first letter effect you personally? What were your thoughts or feelings when you got it?

Dwayne: The first letter changed our lives forever. We assume the feeling was the same one you get when you see your first child slip out of the vagina. We dressed it up in cute outfits and took pictures and sent it to all our friends, we called our parents and took some time off work to be with our first born. They say the beginning years are really the most important.

Charles: Since then, we've gotten so many letters that we've become VERY neglectful parents. We don't even feed our letters anymore.

Do you think it has an effect on those who submit the break-up letters? And how about on those reading the letters on your site?

Dwayne: It's gotta have an effect on the submiters. We think. Maybe. Who knows? Totally. It's like anything, some people love it and others could care less. Some relate and dig certain letters and other detest some of them. You can't please everyone. Unless you're Jesus.

Charles: We've been careful not to worry too much what the submitters feel. We're like the dentist you have who only talks to you about what he or she wrote down on the chart the first time you went to visit. Like, "hey there sport, how's school treating you?" and stuff like that. We try not to develop personal relationships with the submitters, cause then they expect us to hold their hands when they cross the road. Fuck that and fuck Jesus.

Do you find that each letter is unique or are there trends in the way break-up letters are written?

Dwayne: They're all unique in their own way and the commonalities are that it's all people trying to get answers or closure from someone they were intimate with by sharing their stories. Or they just get off on seeing their writing on the world wide web. Either or.

Charles: They are all beautiful and unique snowflakes, made of pixie dust and fairy wind.

Who has been rejected the most in your collection, men or women?

Dwayne: We can't do math. But we're pretty sure it's even. 50/50. No more. No less.

Charles: What he said. Besides, it doesn't matter who got rejected more: we're all rejected deep down inside.

Have you been surprised by any of the letters submitted? If so, how?

Dwayne: At one point we thought no one would submit, then at another point we thought the whole world would submit. So we're pleasantly surprised that anyone submitted at all. So generally we're surprised. Always.

Charles: Yeah. I live life in constant amazement. Like, "holy shit, i can't believe there's something called 'the internet'... and isn't it crazy that there are big hunks of bent metal called 'cars' and people 'driv
e' them and kill each other and pollute the air I breathe?" Life can be a feast of marvels, e-closure included.

Have you been touched by any of the letters submitted? If so, how?

Dwayne: Oui. A lot of them are so personal and well written that you can visualize what happened through the words and sometimes feel what the people in the letter felt. The best ones are the ones that are soul baring and emotionally hard to read.

Charles: I have been personally touched by the one(s) i've submitted, cause they happened to me in real life... i didn't just read them on a computer screen with my pants down. All of the other letters we've gotten touch me on some level, and it makes me feel like a creepy voyeur.

What has the response to e-closure.com been like?

Dwayne: Pretty rad. we have a decent little following. Our most famous readers are Brad Pitt and George Clooney. That's all they do when they get together is read our site and drink peach schnapps, so that's pretty flattering.

Charles: I've gotten some great responses from a couple of my exes, like "please don't ever post anything I sent you on your site. PLEASE."


Do you have anything planned in the future of e-closure.com ?

Dwayne: We just want to take over the world and be on Oprah. Is that too much to ask?

Charles: We're working on a totally made-up non-fiction book that's gonna be about our descent into cat tranquilizer addiction, and the website idea that brought us out of the k-hole.

What would you most like to see happen with your break-up letter documenting venture?

Dwayne: We'd like to open our inbox and see a thousand new letters. In one day. Or maybe every minute of that day a new thousand would show up. Yeah, that'd be sweet.

Charles: I'd like to get a breakup letter from a celebrity... like, it would be awesome to recieve the inevitable breakup letter from katie holmes to tom cruise... that one's gonna be a riot: "dear tom. I'm sick of wearing this tinfoil hat and I don't want to watch you masturbate to star trek anymore. Best of luck in your future endeavors. Kate."

What is the most important thing you'd like readers to know about your site?

Dwayne: If we didn't have you, we'd have no one. Thank you for reading, we love you, you sick bastards.

Charles: If we didn't have you, we'd find someone else. You are all the worst thing that's ever happened to us.

Any thing else?

Dwayne: Did you know that urine is sterile? You can drink it.

Charles: Also, most of the world's population is lactose intolerant. That's because cow's milk is baby food for cows, not people. (seriously. look it up.)


www.e-closure.com

Thanks Guys!

Interview With TheStoriesYouCannotTell

Interview with the creator of TheStoriesYouCannotTell


What inspired you to create your site, The Stories You
Cannot Tell?
-I had made some major mistakes in life and felt the need to apologize. I
felt as if I had some making up to do, even though the people I affected may never even read my blog.

Have you posted ALL of YOUR stories you cannot tell on
your site?
-No. I have barely scratched the surface.

How soon after launching your site did you receive the
first submitted shameful story?
-Three days.

How many user submitted stories do you have on your
site right now?
-There are over two hundred stories at last count.

Have there ever been stories submitted that you
refused to post?
-Yes.

If so how many have been refused? Can you tell us why
they were refused (if any)?
-Only one has ever been refused. I felt that animal sex stories were not something I wanted to post.

Have you received any strange emails as a result of
this project? For example, some one being mad at you after being talked
about in a story?
-No. I have yet to receive a complaint.

Have any of your submitters experience "Telling"
regret?
-Not at all. Many of them have even emailed me, thanking me after I've
posted their story.

Have you developed any new phobias after discovering
some of the things people do?
-Yes. I am more aware of people around me in public washrooms after
reading the story of a guy checking out another guy's package, and the story of what
happened in the YMCA showers.

Has this changed your view of people or society in
general? If so, how and why?
-Not really. Based on my own life experiences I have a good grasp of the
many different types of people and society as a whole.

How busy does this blog keep you?
-Busy enough that I take time away from my normal routine to post stories
and add my comments as well as respond to other people's comments. I'd say
at least a few hours a day.

Do you have plans for the future of your web site?
-I plan to keep it going for a while. I still have quite a few stories to
tell and based on the amount of stories I've received, there is a great
amount of people out there that have stories you cannot tell.

Out of all the stories submitted which is your
personal favorite and why? (include link)
-http://thestoriesyoucannottell.blogspot.com/2006/01/14-tips-to-follow-when-having-affair.html
It's probably the most talked about story I've ever posted. After posting
this I was amazed at how many people emailed me telling me about their
affairs and such. I was shocked at how common cheating is.

Do you have any more interesting facts or experiences
from "The Stories You Cannot Tell"?
-My best experience so far has to be the positive response from my readers.
Seems like with all the "confession" websites out there, none of them give
the you the ability to "talk" to the person confessing. Having the comments on sure
makes for some interesting remarks from the general public. Sometimes the
comments are more humorous than the story themselves!

To Submit Your Own Story, Visit The Blog.

LoveLine Live With Dr. Drew

Interviews With www.makehimpay.net - LoveLine Live With Dr. Drew

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Dr. Drew and Guest Danny Bonaduce answer a callers question about why men cheat.